What to do when you fully and completely love your girlfriend and you don’t see on her the same reciprocity? Yes, she is with you, but you realize that she likes to flirt with others, or she never says she loves you, or she just seems to go after you with interest, or she disrespects you, or she is cold and distant?
What 70% of men do is to be sad, live every day of their lives in doubt, try their best to make a plan to leave their girlfriend, get even more sad because they can’t, have nightmares, imagine that they are being betrayed by their girlfriend, suspect every day...
But from today stop being that man. If you really love this woman, whether or not she is playing with you, you'll hardly leave her, because you love her. Love is the strongest feeling there is. When you're about to leave her, she will call you with that mellow voice and you'll forgive anything, in short, this woman is everything to you and you think she is the most beautiful creature on earth.
From today you are going to stop being insecure. You will treat her as if she were to treat you well and was the best girlfriend in the world. Instead of complaining, you will ignore her flaws and you will make her smile, you will make her happy and in her happiness, you will have your happiness. Tell her how much you love her, buy her gifts, take care of her as if she were the most important thing for you, never doubt her, it won’t take you anywhere, living in doubt is the worst thing that can happen to someone. Always tell her how much you love her even if she doesn’t deserve to hear it. Maybe this is all she has been waiting for!? For someone who treats her very well even if she doesn’t deserve it!? For someone who loves her in spite of everything, for someone who really loves her and is not waiting for her to do things to deserve this love!?
And I guarantee you, if she has a lover, little by little she will lose interest in that lover or at least you're going to compete on an equal footing with him, if she doesn’t like you, little by little she'll start to like, if she is cold and without feeling, little by little, without her knowing how, she will be eager to be by your side and best of all, you'll be treating the woman you love like a princess and you'll be happy for that.
Now choose, a life of misery and distrust or a life of happiness, self-esteem and satisfaction.
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